Monday, July 23, 2007
Tuesday, July 17, 2007
Are you worthy? Do you know you are worthy? You are!!

At our church site Oasis Seattle click on The Miracle, the audio file for July 15 ~ What a wonderful message! ~ Let me know what you think.
If you have a few minutes, this is so worth listening too.
Sunday, July 15, 2007
The Garage

So the pic is not of our garage, it doesn't look that pretty, but now I have hope it could look like that... we just need all the hooks and cabinets.
Wednesday, July 11, 2007
Fun in the Water
I've come such a long way, I am actually posting the pic of me in a bathing suit!
Here is John being a goofball.
Tuesday, July 10, 2007
Team Toyota!!
I get my own webpage off of Team Toyota's site http://www.toyotaenginesofchange.com/Page532.aspx
I don't know how to put that into format so you will have to cut and paste. Team Toyota Engines of Change is all about people who have made a difference in their lives and changed it for the better. They asked me why I do triathlons, and ofcourse I told my story of eating on the cruise, and mentioning I wanted to do a triathlon... after the laughter stopped, something clicked and I went home and signed up. Then the unbelievable happened the stroke (Derrick's) After he was home my mom urged me to still do the Danskin and we did! So there you go that is how I got started.
Why do I keep doing them? Besides being crazy!? Well I fell in love with the sport. It is a goal that I accomplish all on my own. I take time out and train, and I show myself that I can accomplish anything I put my mind to! So that is why I keep doing it.
Come check out the website, I need to change the pic it came out all fuzzy...
I really didn't think I would get picked, and there are only 10 of us for Seattle so I am very honored to be a part of Team Toyota Engines of Change!
Monday, July 09, 2007
Camping
Sunday, June 24, 2007
Our Heroes
To say that today has been an emotional day, well is putting it lightly! I have been thankful all day long that I am able to have my husband around to talk to...
We are positive that the firefighters in our local town, saved Derrick's life. If they wouldn't have gotten to our house in 7 minutes, Derrick might not be alive today. Time is not on your side when you are having a stroke. Many more minutes and Derrick would have lost his life in our house. Thankfully the firefighters were there, and got him out and into the ambulance rather quickly, then made the crucial decision to life flight him to the #1 trauma hospital in the Pacific North West. So to share our gratitude we made a cake for the firefighters and brought it to them to say thank you for saving Derrick's life!
After a big debate on what to write on the cake, we ended up saying "Thank you" and "Our Heros" Yes I am aware heroes is spelled with an e when you pluralize it! I know that now, but we debated when writing it, and got it wrong.... oops.
The firefighters, seemed very happy that we came by to say thank you. I almost burst into tears just saying thank you... but I refrained.
Go hug your loved one's today....
Thursday, June 21, 2007
1 year ago.....
It will be a year on Sunday. The day I died. A lot of things died that day in me. Security no longer resides in my mind. Are we ever really secure? The life we build for ourselves, safe, predictable, planned, and well thought through. Well all of that went out the window on that day. My life will never be the same. When I woke up in the ICU with tubes and wires all over me not feeling any thing on my left side of my body, for just a nanosecond I was disappointed that I was still here. Not really the Christian response but it’s the truth. As the reality of the effects from a major stroke set in, I new I was in for the fight of my life. I had just used up all of my fight in the fight to save my daughters life, when she was born with two tumor’s in her airway. This was when I realized, I’m screwed. This is it. I am now paralyzed and will not walk again or play with my kids again. Way overwhelming. At that moment I was not just paralyzed on my left side of my body, but now my mind was paralyzed, the only tool that I have to fight this new reality with. For two weeks I went through the routine of waking up being showered and cleaned by complete strangers. I was not even able to dress myself or use the restroom alone. I had no hope. Not even a glimmer. I had sunk down into this dark place where I was just alive without life. Many of us live in this place on an every day basis. It is called depression. As far as we can see there is no hope. The key is “as far as we can see”. I could not see Gods plan nor did I care to. I had become so angry and destraught that I threw everyone out of that hospital room and chose to have an “I’m pissed off party” for myself. About five hours into this party of mine. I made a choice. We have these every day, but this one would prove to be the most important choice of my life. I chose to fight. Fight with all that I had left in me. It wasn’t much but I gave it all that I had. OK God, This is it. Regardless of this outcome I love you and will serve you in whatever way I can. The choice was made my mind was made up. Let’s do this thing. I had the best sleep I had have since there at the hospital. I have had many people praying for me since day one. But that day was different. My mind was in a different place. I didn’t care one way or the other. I accepted my fate as handicap father, husband, and friend. As two gentlemen and my wife came into my room the mooring of July 7, 2007, and began to pray for me, I felt an indescribable heat and electricity shoot through my body. Could this really be happening? Is what is happening, be what I think is happening. Yes, it is. I fell to sleep after they were through praying. When I woke up I sat up in my bed by pushing with my left foot. WOW! What a feeling that was. So there I was sitting on my bed completely healed. Thank you Jesus! I did not win that fight alone. You see when I made that decision to get into the fight I wasn’t thinking that I would have a complete healing because face it, that doesn’t happen. Being a chaplain I see it over and over again. After a life changing illnesses you just learn to live with it. So when I chose to fight in my mind all I was saying to myself is ok there’s hope. Hope that in maybe a year or two I can walk with a cane or something like that. You see when we bring God into our circumstance’s his plan is always more than we can see at that time. What I am trying to say is GET UP AND FIGHT. I had no fight in me but God new that so he sent people to me to fight with me. We will always face battles in life. That just the way it is. In less we chose to fight we can’t win a battle. I have not always won but this fight I am winning because I refuse to quit. It has been a tough long battle that I am still fighting but I am not alone. Neither are you. In closing I would like to encourage you to look past your current problem or circumstance to the hope we have, which is we are not alone. Battles aren’t won by only one person they are won by armys.
Still fighting, Derrick Young
Tuesday, June 19, 2007
Tokyo Cowboy
This is Derrick and his cousin Curtis he is aprofessional student and has attended the University of Washington for decades. (Yes he has many degrees and PHD's!)
I had to throw a picture of Josie in, too cute she had icecream all over her!
Sunday, June 17, 2007
Happy Father's Day ~ Derrick
Tuesday, June 12, 2007
Valley Days
This pic is at the end of the parade ~ we were soaking wet!
Monday, June 11, 2007
The finale... that wasn't

Friday, June 01, 2007
Phone pics

Tuesday, May 22, 2007
Fast!
John was out riding his Spiderman bike, and he was riding up and down the driveway as I pulled weeds. (the front yard is about 1/2 done!!) So he we were talking and he said two things to me, the first one he said was when he was at church God told him he was going to be fast! Really how can you argue with that? I said well you are going to be really fast then, he said "yes mama I know". Then a little while later he came back over and he had his hand on his brake of the bike, I asked him if he knew what it did, no he didn't . I told him it was the brake for when you needed to slow down. He looked at me so seriously and said, "why would I slow down?" So I told him sometimes you have to stop for cars or people.
"Oh, ok." was his reply. Too cute.
Saturday, May 19, 2007
Wednesday, May 16, 2007
Happy Birthday to... Grandpa John!
Monday, May 14, 2007
The sun is shining.
Thank you for the relaxing and fun day yesterday. It was really nice.
Em
Monday, May 07, 2007
Pictures from Greensburg, KS

Saturday, May 05, 2007
Family members are alive!
The family has lost everything, their home, their cars, all possessions. There is nothing left of what they used to call home. cnn is reporting that 90% of the town they live in, is gone.
I would like to say I am so happy and thankful that Angilique, Travis and their two little girls are alive! 7 people lost their lives in this tornado, so I praise God that they were able to survive.
I am starting a collection to help out their family. I will be asking churches and other local community businesses and people for donations of giftcards. **** Update 5/6/07 The family is currently staying with their inlaws until other arrangements can be made. I have found out that their is a Walmart in the area for both clothes and food... Visa gift cards can typically be purchased at your bank, that can be used at any store that accepts visa. The grocery store chain in the area is Dillon I am told it is part of Kroger. If you would like to send a gift card, or regular card to show support for the family.**** You can mail it to:
Travis and Angelique Libby
c/o Helen Libby
1653 200th Ave
Lewis, KS 67552
Thank you all for your support. Please lift them up in prayer.
Thursday, May 03, 2007
You do the math... @ .31 it added up to only $4.00!!

Tuesday, April 24, 2007
34 years old!
Derrick turned 34 on Sunday!
We celebrated by going bowling, Derrick actually had the best score! Those of you who have ever bowled with Derrick know this is quite an accomplishent! Congrats babe on the game, and on turning 34. It has been a hell of a year, but we made it! Here is to many happy years ahead. ~~~Happy Birthday~~~
Josie made the cake batter, John and Josie whipped the icing and then Josie deocated the cake!!
Thursday, April 19, 2007
Wednesday, April 18, 2007
Local guy ~ does good! UFC fighter Jens Pulver aka "lil evil"
Jens went to high school (a couple of years younger than me) in the sticks where I did... to say he had a crappy child hood is well probably putting it nicely. Rumors floated that he used to get beat by his dad ( I do not know if it was a step or biological) ... no one did anything. Jens is now giving back and helping to reach those that didn't reach out to him. He speaks publicly about domestic violence.
Yes he now fights for a living... I think it is great he took all the crud and turned it for good...
Thursday Nights on the Ultimate Fighter on the Spike channel you can watch his team ~
Jens Pulver – Bringing A Lil’ Evil Back to the UFC

of the team was like, ‘aw, you’ve got to do your own thing – you’re too cool for us.’ And all of a sudden it 180’s and I’m not in and here comes all of MFS – now you’ve got Team UFC® here at Miletich camp. All right, whatever. But in order for any kind of survival for me and my career, I had to say, ‘you know what? This is business.’ I’ve got to fight because I need the money, I gotta fight because I need to pay my bills. And it helped. But in the back of my mind and in my heart, there was a lot of incompletion.”It could have ended up as a story full of what ifs. But in 2006, the UFC® reinstated the lightweight division on a full-time basis, and what better way to celebrate the return of the sport’s most exciting weight class than by bringing back the original king. At least that’s what conventional thought would have been. But Pulver, whose teammates Spencer Fisher and Roger Huerta are already in the UFC’s lightweight division, didn’t think that the return of 155-pounders automatically meant his return to the Octagon.“I never did, because we had Spencer and because I was gonna help out and corner Roger for this one, and they have some stacked ’55 pounders,” he said. “I kinda felt like the old man has passed – my window as far as the UFC® and that belt has come and gone. The biggest thing was that the new fans, the reality show fans, have no idea who I am. So they could have started over. But I’ve got a lot of love for (UFC® President) Dana (White) and one of the things, when it was all said and done, is that he said that when they had the TV time and had enough fights available, he was bringing them back. And four years later he lived up to it.”In June, White made it official, announcing the return of ‘Lil’ Evil’. Did Pulver ever think this day was coming?“Never,” he admits. “I never thought it would come. I didn’t know the future of the lightweight division or my future, what I was gonna be doing. But when I heard this, it was no decision for me. I knew immediately that this is where I want to be.” “I missed being home,” Pulver continues. “I missed being part of something extremely special in the United States, something that was growing. I was a kid the first time around, had a belt, and had everybody telling me how good I was. A lot of politics got in the way and it was so long ago now in my head and what I’ve changed to, that I’m just glad to be home. My team’s here, my family’s here, and to me, that’s been the hardest part. Everybody’s missing that I had to go off on my own, do my fight, and I come back and try to help everybody do their thing. And that was tough.”But he’s home now, and he’s got designs on rising to the top of his weight class once again.“The 155-pound division is what I built – that’s mine in this sport,” he said. “I’m afraid to talk about it and say I’m back – I don’t want to jinx it. (Laughs) I’m afraid it’s too good to be true.”So despite the vacant nature of the lightweight title, does he still consider himself the champion even if other fighters may fight for it and win it in the interim?“No, I left,” said Pulver. “Am I the only champion they had? Yep. Nobody ever beat me. They can find somebody, but they ain’t touching my belt because I didn’t lose my belt. But I am coming after them. If I have to win two, three, or four fights, I will go after their new belt and trade in my own belt and we can fight for both.”Spoken like a true champion. But what about some other business in the UFC® that fans may be itching to see, maybe, say, a rematch between Pulver and Penn? Does this fight have to happen considering that both are back in the organization?“I think it has to,” said Pulver, his grin widening. “I’ll make him a deal – I know he’s fat and he’s lazy, so I’ll help him out. (Laughs) If this is what people want to see and he can’t get under 160, I’ll fight him at 165. I know everybody wants to see it, so I’m not gonna be the one to stop it from happening. I’ll be the little guy taking on the chubby guy – that’s okay.”This time they won’t underestimate the power of a ‘Lil’ Evil’ though.
Tuesday, April 10, 2007
Easter
Monday, April 09, 2007
This will make you feel old!
Saturday's Easter Egg Hunt
Tuesday, April 03, 2007
This is one of my favorite quotes. Funny that my top two quotes from Tom Hanks movies! Weird huh. Just thinking about this quote gives me hope. When I am stuck in a rut, and searching, having a bad day or wondering why on earth I have been through so much in my life. I find comfort in knowing that the sun will rise. No matter what happens. No matter if I can see the sun or not, if the sun is blocked out by clouds it doesn't mean it is not there. No it just means it is blocked out though but given time, the sun will appear. Everyday is a new day, everyday is a new beginning. As I am in a journey that is currently taking me through some extremely hard stuff, I find comfort that tomorrow is a new day. With a new day brings hope. I don't want to lose track of that hope. It could be easy to lose sight of things when you feel like you are in a pit. But I have to remember that each day is a promise. The rain will stop the sun will shine again.
Sunday, April 01, 2007
Grandma Candy

This is a picture of the late Governer of Washington Dixie Lee Ray and Grandma Candy.
She worked at Bemis Bag, sold Beeline clothes & Empress Pearls. Her passion was her Doll Shop on Martin Luther King Jr. Way where her talent for refurbishing old dolls & visiting with neighbors flourished.
She had an audience with the late Washington Governor, Dixie Lee Ray. Annie presented Governor Ray with a look-alike doll & hand crocheted clothes replicating the styles & lime green colors she always wore; followed by a four page feature in "Women’s Magazine".
Annie’s other interests were dancing, gardening, reading, crocheting, and collecting: dolls, bells, thimbles, key rings, lamps & elephants. Her favorite celebrities were John Wayne, Dolly Parton & Elvis Presley. Annie is survived by her daughters; Mary Sorg of Bonney Lake, Sue Brundage of Everett, Clairette Somonski of Monroe, Charlotte Thomas of Mountlake Terrace, Margaret Mirza of Tacoma & her son, Tom Wirth of Arizona. She has 17 grandchildren & 20 great grandchildren who affectionately called her "Grandma Candy". There will be a private family service.


