Monday, July 23, 2007

Some weekend fun...

Mom having fun on the motorcycle, it is hard to ride cuz you are so close to the ground. But I managed nicely. I know I am setting a great example, shorts and no helmet! oops
Loveley pic~ look how close to the ground you are!
Uncle John gave little John an ipod. John's life will never be the same! He loves it.


Jammin on the ipod fun.



Our cutie pie!




This is our friend "Scissors" he is doing his best impression of "Frank N Beans" from, There's Something about Mary. It was quite an impression really, scary how good it was!





Tuesday, July 17, 2007

Are you worthy? Do you know you are worthy? You are!!

Jimmy, Derrick's friend and a member of the Oasis Power Team (you know the big guys that break stuff for fun?!) recently preached about Derrick's healing. I had never heard Jimmy's full story on all the events that led up to Jimmy and Greg (another Power Team member) coming and laying hands on Derrick when he was in the hospital. Very powerful message.



At our church site Oasis Seattle click on The Miracle, the audio file for July 15 ~ What a wonderful message! ~ Let me know what you think.


If you have a few minutes, this is so worth listening too.

Sunday, July 15, 2007

The Garage


“Only in America do we leave cars worth thousands of dollars in the driveway and leave useless junk in the garage." only in America

So the pic is not of our garage, it doesn't look that pretty, but now I have hope it could look like that... we just need all the hooks and cabinets.

So we can't stop staring at our garge, there is actually a car in it! wow 7 years and we can put the car in the garage. We actually could fit both mine and Derick's in the garage, but my truck has a lift on it and will not phsyically fit through the garage door. It was a contractor oops when the house was built (no one noticed until it was too late) .... We are feeling pretty happy and satisfied that it is now organized, we literally stood out in the driveway for about an hour just staring at the car saying "wow, look it is in the garage!"
You know it is the little things in life.
For those of you with 3 car garages, there is no excuse you have an extra stall in which to put boxes and stuff! (my opinion on the subject!) We have a two car garage, so you need to pack and stack nicely in order to get it all in. Anyway just wanted to share our excitement. It feels so good to tackle something that you thought was impossible!

Wednesday, July 11, 2007

Fun in the Water

We have one of those little 10' pools, so we filled it up in time for the record breaking heat! Suppose to hit a 100' today. This is the Seattle area people, a 100'!

I've come such a long way, I am actually posting the pic of me in a bathing suit!




To stay cool we are busy playing in the pool.




Here is John being a goofball.

Tuesday, July 10, 2007

Team Toyota!!

Most of you know that I like triathlons. Well this year after I signed up for the Danskin race in Seattle. I got an email asking me to fill out some stuff for Team Toyota. I filled it out, and didn't really think I would get picked.... but I did get picked! I am being sponsored by Team Toyota this season. I get some really cool stuff ~ triathlon events are not cheap!

I get my own webpage off of Team Toyota's site http://www.toyotaenginesofchange.com/Page532.aspx
I don't know how to put that into format so you will have to cut and paste. Team Toyota Engines of Change is all about people who have made a difference in their lives and changed it for the better. They asked me why I do triathlons, and ofcourse I told my story of eating on the cruise, and mentioning I wanted to do a triathlon... after the laughter stopped, something clicked and I went home and signed up. Then the unbelievable happened the stroke (Derrick's) After he was home my mom urged me to still do the Danskin and we did! So there you go that is how I got started.

Why do I keep doing them? Besides being crazy!? Well I fell in love with the sport. It is a goal that I accomplish all on my own. I take time out and train, and I show myself that I can accomplish anything I put my mind to! So that is why I keep doing it.

Come check out the website, I need to change the pic it came out all fuzzy...
I really didn't think I would get picked, and there are only 10 of us for Seattle so I am very honored to be a part of Team Toyota Engines of Change!

Monday, July 09, 2007

Camping

We went camping! What an adventure it was! Here are some fun pics.





Little John catching a football, he is getting good!






Hanging out by the campfire




Double marshmellows!

Uncle John!


Sunday, June 24, 2007

Our Heroes




To say that today has been an emotional day, well is putting it lightly! I have been thankful all day long that I am able to have my husband around to talk to...

We are positive that the firefighters in our local town, saved Derrick's life. If they wouldn't have gotten to our house in 7 minutes, Derrick might not be alive today. Time is not on your side when you are having a stroke. Many more minutes and Derrick would have lost his life in our house. Thankfully the firefighters were there, and got him out and into the ambulance rather quickly, then made the crucial decision to life flight him to the #1 trauma hospital in the Pacific North West. So to share our gratitude we made a cake for the firefighters and brought it to them to say thank you for saving Derrick's life!

After a big debate on what to write on the cake, we ended up saying "Thank you" and "Our Heros" Yes I am aware heroes is spelled with an e when you pluralize it! I know that now, but we debated when writing it, and got it wrong.... oops.

The firefighters, seemed very happy that we came by to say thank you. I almost burst into tears just saying thank you... but I refrained.

Go hug your loved one's today....

Thursday, June 21, 2007

1 year ago.....

June 21, 2007


It will be a year on Sunday. The day I died. A lot of things died that day in me. Security no longer resides in my mind. Are we ever really secure? The life we build for ourselves, safe, predictable, planned, and well thought through. Well all of that went out the window on that day. My life will never be the same. When I woke up in the ICU with tubes and wires all over me not feeling any thing on my left side of my body, for just a nanosecond I was disappointed that I was still here. Not really the Christian response but it’s the truth. As the reality of the effects from a major stroke set in, I new I was in for the fight of my life. I had just used up all of my fight in the fight to save my daughters life, when she was born with two tumor’s in her airway. This was when I realized, I’m screwed. This is it. I am now paralyzed and will not walk again or play with my kids again. Way overwhelming. At that moment I was not just paralyzed on my left side of my body, but now my mind was paralyzed, the only tool that I have to fight this new reality with. For two weeks I went through the routine of waking up being showered and cleaned by complete strangers. I was not even able to dress myself or use the restroom alone. I had no hope. Not even a glimmer. I had sunk down into this dark place where I was just alive without life. Many of us live in this place on an every day basis. It is called depression. As far as we can see there is no hope. The key is “as far as we can see”. I could not see Gods plan nor did I care to. I had become so angry and destraught that I threw everyone out of that hospital room and chose to have an “I’m pissed off party” for myself. About five hours into this party of mine. I made a choice. We have these every day, but this one would prove to be the most important choice of my life. I chose to fight. Fight with all that I had left in me. It wasn’t much but I gave it all that I had. OK God, This is it. Regardless of this outcome I love you and will serve you in whatever way I can. The choice was made my mind was made up. Let’s do this thing. I had the best sleep I had have since there at the hospital. I have had many people praying for me since day one. But that day was different. My mind was in a different place. I didn’t care one way or the other. I accepted my fate as handicap father, husband, and friend. As two gentlemen and my wife came into my room the mooring of July 7, 2007, and began to pray for me, I felt an indescribable heat and electricity shoot through my body. Could this really be happening? Is what is happening, be what I think is happening. Yes, it is. I fell to sleep after they were through praying. When I woke up I sat up in my bed by pushing with my left foot. WOW! What a feeling that was. So there I was sitting on my bed completely healed. Thank you Jesus! I did not win that fight alone. You see when I made that decision to get into the fight I wasn’t thinking that I would have a complete healing because face it, that doesn’t happen. Being a chaplain I see it over and over again. After a life changing illnesses you just learn to live with it. So when I chose to fight in my mind all I was saying to myself is ok there’s hope. Hope that in maybe a year or two I can walk with a cane or something like that. You see when we bring God into our circumstance’s his plan is always more than we can see at that time. What I am trying to say is GET UP AND FIGHT. I had no fight in me but God new that so he sent people to me to fight with me. We will always face battles in life. That just the way it is. In less we chose to fight we can’t win a battle. I have not always won but this fight I am winning because I refuse to quit. It has been a tough long battle that I am still fighting but I am not alone. Neither are you. In closing I would like to encourage you to look past your current problem or circumstance to the hope we have, which is we are not alone. Battles aren’t won by only one person they are won by armys.

Still fighting, Derrick Young

Tuesday, June 19, 2007

Tokyo Cowboy



This is a picture of Derrick and his cousin Clinton "Tokyo Cowboy".





Derrick's cousin was in town from Tokyo, Japan. He has lived there for over 30 years, and is an actor there. He does many commercials and dramas on tv. We got to talk to his cousin Clinton for quite a while tonight, and wow he has led quite a life in Japan. Obviously the culture is much different than the US, and well he is a 6'2" white man living in downtown Tokyo ~ he's bound to stand out!




This is Derrick and his cousin Curtis he is aprofessional student and has attended the University of Washington for decades. (Yes he has many degrees and PHD's!)




It was a treat to see many people on Derricks dad's side of the family.


I had to throw a picture of Josie in, too cute she had icecream all over her!

Sunday, June 17, 2007

Happy Father's Day ~ Derrick


A friend of mine when I was little, had a picture that she drew when she was very young in her bathroom. Her parents had framed it, I always thought that was so special and neat. So this year for Father's day I framed two pieces of "artwork" from John and Josie along with their photos from the past month, and put it in a frame.


Happy Father's Day Derrick. Your the best!!

Tuesday, June 12, 2007

Valley Days

A town near us had their yearly celebration. Our kids John and Josie enjoy the library time at the local libraries so they got to walk in the local parade. Detrix, well he got talked into walking too!


This pic is at the end of the parade ~ we were soaking wet!





John and Josie both dressed as clowns, we did great except for all the rain. Josie had a wonderful time handing out bubble gum to all the kids on the side of the parade route. She took her job very seriously, and was so cute has she bent down to get the bubble gum out of her pocket. The reason they handed out bubble gum, is the librarian always sings the "sticky sticky bubble gum" song at library time.








Monday, June 11, 2007

The finale... that wasn't


Well for two years we have been waiting for the finale of the Sopranos. Yes we watch it, and loved it! The finale for me though, was not what I thought it would be, but the show never was ~ what I thought ~ would happen. (Hopefully that makes sense) So in a way it was fitting. I was a little bummed there wasn't a bigger blood bath and killing of everyone off the show.... come on it's a mafia drama that is what you expect. But I guess no ending would really be fitting would it? for any of you that have followed it you have come to love, Tony, Paulie, AJ and the others.... the Sopranos will live on....


Friday, June 01, 2007

Phone pics

I decided to take some of the pictures off of my phone.. so here they are!



Here is John and Sherman playing in the driveway. We are watching Sherman this week.

This is a pic from last year, but too cute! Look at that belly!


Josie one day just came walking up the stairs like this, boxing gloves and all... our little brut.


This is John riding Boomer... a 205 pound mastiff. Oh he loved Boomer... we miss you Boomer.

Tuesday, May 22, 2007

Fast!

I thought I would share this story with you all.

John was out riding his Spiderman bike, and he was riding up and down the driveway as I pulled weeds. (the front yard is about 1/2 done!!) So he we were talking and he said two things to me, the first one he said was when he was at church God told him he was going to be fast! Really how can you argue with that? I said well you are going to be really fast then, he said "yes mama I know". Then a little while later he came back over and he had his hand on his brake of the bike, I asked him if he knew what it did, no he didn't . I told him it was the brake for when you needed to slow down. He looked at me so seriously and said, "why would I slow down?" So I told him sometimes you have to stop for cars or people.
"Oh, ok." was his reply. Too cute.

Saturday, May 19, 2007

Just a couple of clowns!






Grandma Mary is taking the kids to a fair today. she is running a couple of kids games, so whe asked John and Josie if they wanted to dress up. Yes was ofcourse the answer.






Too Cute!

Wednesday, May 16, 2007

Happy Birthday to... Grandpa John!



It was Grandpa John's 65th Birthday yesterday!




Josie sang Happy Birthday ALL day long to Grandpa. It was fun the first 30 times, then well it kind of lost the fun factor! Although she is a good singer and performer.




I don't have any photos of Grandpa, but I do have some of the cake I made for him.... you know it's all about the food!




John wanted to make Grandpa a car cake, so this was my best attempt! Not too bad.

Monday, May 14, 2007

The sun is shining.

So today the sunshine is out, the kids are doing well and it's a good day. I wish I had some miraculous news but well I don't . Just a normal day. I had a good mother's day. We all went bowling. Then let the kids play at a couple of parks. It was a very relaxing day and lot s of fun.

Thank you for the relaxing and fun day yesterday. It was really nice.

Em

Monday, May 07, 2007

Pictures from Greensburg, KS


This is what is left of Angelique and Travis Libby's home in Greensburg, KS. As you can see it is a total loss. You can see the story below of what happened. The address is below if you wish to send gift cards, they escaped with the clothes on their backs. They are in need of everything. They must rebuild their lives. Please keep them in your prayers, I can't imagine the emotional torture they are going through right now.

Saturday, May 05, 2007

Family members are alive!

As I write this, I can't believe that yet again tragedy has struck in the lives of one of our family members. Derrick's cousin Angelique who lives in Greensburg, KS ** correction was made ( I always say Oklahoma for some reason, sorry I sent it out wrong on the email too) they live in Kansas! ** escaped the tornado that tore threw their town last night. The family escaped with literally the clothes on their backs. The family heard the warning siren go off, and quickly left their home and drove to Angiliques work to warn co-workers of the tornado. Angiliques family took cover under a desk, where Angilique held onto her two girls, while her husband laid on top of them. The building was left in shambles. She said it seemed like a freght train was going over the top of them. It seemed to last for 10 minutes, but they believe it was all over within a couple of minutes.






The family has lost everything, their home, their cars, all possessions. There is nothing left of what they used to call home. cnn is reporting that 90% of the town they live in, is gone.





I would like to say I am so happy and thankful that Angilique, Travis and their two little girls are alive! 7 people lost their lives in this tornado, so I praise God that they were able to survive.

I am starting a collection to help out their family. I will be asking churches and other local community businesses and people for donations of giftcards. **** Update 5/6/07 The family is currently staying with their inlaws until other arrangements can be made. I have found out that their is a Walmart in the area for both clothes and food... Visa gift cards can typically be purchased at your bank, that can be used at any store that accepts visa. The grocery store chain in the area is Dillon I am told it is part of Kroger. If you would like to send a gift card, or regular card to show support for the family.**** You can mail it to:

Travis and Angelique Libby

c/o Helen Libby

1653 200th Ave

Lewis, KS 67552

Thank you all for your support. Please lift them up in prayer.

Thursday, May 03, 2007

You do the math... @ .31 it added up to only $4.00!!


Hopefully you all heard about the $0.31 scoop that Baskin and Robbins had on sale yesterday! Money went to support the Fallen Firefighters Fund, so ofcourse we had to go support a great cause. We had so much fun at the first Baskin and Robbins, well we had to go to another one! Yes we went to two Baskin and Robbins, we actually could have stayed and ate more at the first one, but it was fun to go to a different one too. So to justify all the icecream scoops, they were smaller than normal! (yes that makes me feel better) Next year I will let you know about it before hand so you can all go, it was nationwide! Pretty cool.

Tuesday, April 24, 2007

34 years old!







Derrick turned 34 on Sunday!

We celebrated by going bowling, Derrick actually had the best score! Those of you who have ever bowled with Derrick know this is quite an accomplishent! Congrats babe on the game, and on turning 34. It has been a hell of a year, but we made it! Here is to many happy years ahead. ~~~Happy Birthday~~~










Josie made the cake batter, John and Josie whipped the icing and then Josie deocated the cake!!




Thursday, April 19, 2007

Wednesday, April 18, 2007

Local guy ~ does good! UFC fighter Jens Pulver aka "lil evil"

Most of you won't read this whole article, cuz it is long. But if you like the UFC (I am addicted!) this is worth a read. Jens Pulver is a local guy from the area I grew up in. Yes I knew him, no we weren't close at all. So I am not jumping on the "he was my best friend band wagon" I thought it was pretty cool a local boy who came from a rocky background, is doing some awesome stuff!


Jens went to high school (a couple of years younger than me) in the sticks where I did... to say he had a crappy child hood is well probably putting it nicely. Rumors floated that he used to get beat by his dad ( I do not know if it was a step or biological) ... no one did anything. Jens is now giving back and helping to reach those that didn't reach out to him. He speaks publicly about domestic violence.

Yes he now fights for a living... I think it is great he took all the crud and turned it for good...


Thursday Nights on the Ultimate Fighter on the Spike channel you can watch his team ~



Jens Pulver – Bringing A Lil’ Evil Back to the UFC




By Thomas GerbasiBJ Penn was unbeatable.


Gilbert and Din Thomas, the question wasn’t whether Penn would win the UFC® lightweight title, but when. Simply put, Jens Pulver, the current champion, was merely a placeholder until ‘The Prodigy’ decided to take the crown.Penn had just one more obstacle to get by before he would get his title shot, and that was highly ranked contender Caol Uno at UFC® 34 in November of 2001. Uno had lost a hard-fought five round decision to Pulver almost nine months earlier, but he bounced back with a first round TKO of Fabiano Iha and was on the road to a rematch with ‘Lil Evil’.Sitting ringside to offer commentary on the bout was the champ. He wasn’t there long.In one of the most memorable moments in UFC® history, Penn blitzed Uno, knocking him out in 11 seconds, and followed up the demolition job by sprinting from the Octagon™ to the backstage area and back.Oh yeah, no one was going to beat BJ Penn. Not even Pulver, who put on a brave face for the fans watching the pay-per-view broadcast.“I watched the 11 second smacking, and I couldn’t be on TV going ‘oh my goodness, I’m worried,’” laughed Pulver. “So I said, ‘he might be good, but he ain’t evil.’ That’s what I had to tell myself, that I had something inside of me that can’t be taught.” But despite his 5-0-1 record in the Octagon and his status as not only a champion but as one of the good guys of the game, Pulver just wasn’t going to beat Hawaii’s ‘Prodigy’ in Connecticut on January 11, 2002. Or so people thought. And the disrespect motivated him.“Leading up to the fight and being a 6 to 1 underdog drove me nuts,” he remembered. “I just had to train harder and train harder because I wanted to beat him more than anything. He was the best guy on the ground, decoration-wise, and he’s knocking people out standing up. I was worried, absolutely. But when the week of that fight came, I could see it in him that I had it, because I was coming to fight.” Early on though, the fight went according to prediction as Penn started fast and even locked in an armbar late in the second round that almost ended the bout. As Pulver walked back to his corner after barely escaping defeat, doubt flooded his mind.“After that second round ended, when he had that armbar which I did not tap to, I remember sitting in the corner and going ‘oh my God, I’m gonna walk out in this third round, he’s gonna take me down, he’s gonna mount me and beat the hell out of me again – what am I doing?’” Then inspiration came from an unlikely source as he stared across the Octagon and saw a member of Penn’s camp mocking him.“Somebody in his corner, one of his little entourage, was jumping up and down and doing the cut throat (gesture) at me,” chuckled Pulver. “And I looked right at him and I was like ‘are you kidding me?’ So because of that guy, I said ‘no way’ and he never got another takedown. That was the thing that I needed in my head. If I get beat, I get beat, but I ain’t going out like this.”Pulver roared back into the fight over the next three rounds, showing the experience and heart that true champions have a patent on, and he rightfully earned a five round majority decision over Penn to retain his UFC lightweight crown. It was a great night for Pulver, and for the sport, which saw the 155-pound weight class take center stage for the first time here in the States.Then it was over.A contract dispute saw Pulver leave the UFC and his title behind, and with it, the lightweight division hit a wall. An elimination tournament to crown a new champion produced a final draw between Penn and Uno, and by the time Yves Edwards knocked out Josh Thomson at UFC® 49 in August of 2004, the division was put on the shelf.Some MMA scribes called it ‘The Curse of Jens Pulver’, but in the time after he left the Octagon, the Iowan wasn’t exactly living a charmed life. Two wins in 2002 were followed by back-to-back knockout losses to Duane Ludwig and Jason Maxwell, and though he bounced back in the latter half of 2003 with victories over Joe Jordan and Richard Hess, it was a far cry from the high profile exposure he enjoyed in the UFC.In 2004 though, Pulver started to get his groove back. He put together two wins in the Shooto organization in Japan, and went 2-2 in Pride, with his only losses coming to Takanori Gomi and Mach Sakurai. In between these trips overseas, ‘Lil’ Evil’ kicked off a pro boxing career, going 4-0 with 3 KOs and even getting some TV time on ESPN2. Yet there was still something missing for Pulver, and this was never more evident than just by watching the scene in a restaurant at Las Vegas’ Hard Rock Hotel in June. Pulver sat with friends having lunch, and around him were members of the cast of the third season of ‘The Ultimate Fighter™’ reality show. These young fighters were getting swarmed by autograph seekers and fans, and some were even being followed by camera crews. But Pulver, the one and only UFC® lightweight champion, wasn’t approached. I asked him what goes through his mind in a scene like that. “This sport’s grown and I’m extremely excited,” he said. “I don’t think anybody doesn’t deserve it because the way the show and the hype is, anybody that can get in and do a good job, these fans are hungry for it, and we knew from the beginning that if it was done right, the fans would be hungry for it. But the part that has always haunted me, when I parted ways in the beginning, was the incompletion for me. Along the way I had to find some way of surviving, more or less, because I was the original – Matt (Hughes) wasn’t even champion, it was just me traveling around with Tito (Ortiz). And the rest
of the team was like, ‘aw, you’ve got to do your own thing – you’re too cool for us.’ And all of a sudden it 180’s and I’m not in and here comes all of MFS – now you’ve got Team UFC® here at Miletich camp. All right, whatever. But in order for any kind of survival for me and my career, I had to say, ‘you know what? This is business.’ I’ve got to fight because I need the money, I gotta fight because I need to pay my bills. And it helped. But in the back of my mind and in my heart, there was a lot of incompletion.”It could have ended up as a story full of what ifs. But in 2006, the UFC® reinstated the lightweight division on a full-time basis, and what better way to celebrate the return of the sport’s most exciting weight class than by bringing back the original king. At least that’s what conventional thought would have been. But Pulver, whose teammates Spencer Fisher and Roger Huerta are already in the UFC’s lightweight division, didn’t think that the return of 155-pounders automatically meant his return to the Octagon.“I never did, because we had Spencer and because I was gonna help out and corner Roger for this one, and they have some stacked ’55 pounders,” he said. “I kinda felt like the old man has passed – my window as far as the UFC® and that belt has come and gone. The biggest thing was that the new fans, the reality show fans, have no idea who I am. So they could have started over. But I’ve got a lot of love for (UFC® President) Dana (White) and one of the things, when it was all said and done, is that he said that when they had the TV time and had enough fights available, he was bringing them back. And four years later he lived up to it.”In June, White made it official, announcing the return of ‘Lil’ Evil’. Did Pulver ever think this day was coming?“Never,” he admits. “I never thought it would come. I didn’t know the future of the lightweight division or my future, what I was gonna be doing. But when I heard this, it was no decision for me. I knew immediately that this is where I want to be.” “I missed being home,” Pulver continues. “I missed being part of something extremely special in the United States, something that was growing. I was a kid the first time around, had a belt, and had everybody telling me how good I was. A lot of politics got in the way and it was so long ago now in my head and what I’ve changed to, that I’m just glad to be home. My team’s here, my family’s here, and to me, that’s been the hardest part. Everybody’s missing that I had to go off on my own, do my fight, and I come back and try to help everybody do their thing. And that was tough.”But he’s home now, and he’s got designs on rising to the top of his weight class once again.“The 155-pound division is what I built – that’s mine in this sport,” he said. “I’m afraid to talk about it and say I’m back – I don’t want to jinx it. (Laughs) I’m afraid it’s too good to be true.”So despite the vacant nature of the lightweight title, does he still consider himself the champion even if other fighters may fight for it and win it in the interim?“No, I left,” said Pulver. “Am I the only champion they had? Yep. Nobody ever beat me. They can find somebody, but they ain’t touching my belt because I didn’t lose my belt. But I am coming after them. If I have to win two, three, or four fights, I will go after their new belt and trade in my own belt and we can fight for both.”Spoken like a true champion. But what about some other business in the UFC® that fans may be itching to see, maybe, say, a rematch between Pulver and Penn? Does this fight have to happen considering that both are back in the organization?“I think it has to,” said Pulver, his grin widening. “I’ll make him a deal – I know he’s fat and he’s lazy, so I’ll help him out. (Laughs) If this is what people want to see and he can’t get under 160, I’ll fight him at 165. I know everybody wants to see it, so I’m not gonna be the one to stop it from happening. I’ll be the little guy taking on the chubby guy – that’s okay.”This time they won’t underestimate the power of a ‘Lil’ Evil’ though.

Tuesday, April 10, 2007

Easter

On Sunday the Easter Bunny came by when the kids weren't looking and laid eggs in the driveway.

This is John and Josie and their friend Dimitri finding the eggs! We are in the process of doing the yard~ pics on the yard later... it looks incredible!



Monday, April 09, 2007

This will make you feel old!

Detrix turned 14 on Saturday! Yes, I wrote 14! Can you believe it?

We went to skate barn west in Tukwila where he and a group of friends all skated for 4 hours. It was cool to watch you could roller blad, skate board or go on a scooter. Pretty amazing to watch kids, do some cool tricks.









Saturday's Easter Egg Hunt






We started off our busy weekend with an Easter Egg hunt out in Grandma Mary and Grandpa Lou's neighborhood. We hadn't been in a couple of years, but boy they have the best parties out there! Thank you to both Lou and Mary for inviting us out.






Tuesday, April 03, 2007

I gotta keep breathing. Because tomorrow the sun will rise. Who knows what the tide could bring? Tom Hanks in Castaway




This is one of my favorite quotes. Funny that my top two quotes from Tom Hanks movies! Weird huh. Just thinking about this quote gives me hope. When I am stuck in a rut, and searching, having a bad day or wondering why on earth I have been through so much in my life. I find comfort in knowing that the sun will rise. No matter what happens. No matter if I can see the sun or not, if the sun is blocked out by clouds it doesn't mean it is not there. No it just means it is blocked out though but given time, the sun will appear. Everyday is a new day, everyday is a new beginning. As I am in a journey that is currently taking me through some extremely hard stuff, I find comfort that tomorrow is a new day. With a new day brings hope. I don't want to lose track of that hope. It could be easy to lose sight of things when you feel like you are in a pit. But I have to remember that each day is a promise. The rain will stop the sun will shine again.

Sunday, April 01, 2007

Grandma Candy

Derrick's Grandma Candy past away this past week. Derrick did the memorial at his aunt's house today. Our daughter Josephine Annie Forever is named after her. Everytime she would see Josie his grandmother would light up. I am happy that our kids got to know this spunky and fun lady. Although John and Josie only knew her after a stroke, both of them will take parts of their Grandma with them all the days of their lives. She leaves a wonderful inheritance of always staying in the fight. Always choosing to live each day to its fullest no matter what life may bring your way. She chose to stay in the fight, and to be a survivor and an "overcomer" these are some wonderful things that I am proud my kids will inherit.



This is a picture of the late Governer of Washington Dixie Lee Ray and Grandma Candy.





Annie Washo, born August 30, 1921 in Oakpark, Georgia: resided in Rainier Valley/Burien Area most of her years. Annie died March 27th 2007 at Providence Marionwood in Issaquah at the age of 85.
She worked at Bemis Bag, sold Beeline clothes & Empress Pearls. Her passion was her Doll Shop on Martin Luther King Jr. Way where her talent for refurbishing old dolls & visiting with neighbors flourished.
She had an audience with the late Washington Governor, Dixie Lee Ray. Annie presented Governor Ray with a look-alike doll & hand crocheted clothes replicating the styles & lime green colors she always wore; followed by a four page feature in "Women’s Magazine".
Annie’s other interests were dancing, gardening, reading, crocheting, and collecting: dolls, bells, thimbles, key rings, lamps & elephants. Her favorite celebrities were John Wayne, Dolly Parton & Elvis Presley. Annie is survived by her daughters; Mary Sorg of Bonney Lake, Sue Brundage of Everett, Clairette Somonski of Monroe, Charlotte Thomas of Mountlake Terrace, Margaret Mirza of Tacoma & her son, Tom Wirth of Arizona. She has 17 grandchildren & 20 great grandchildren who affectionately called her "Grandma Candy". There will be a private family service.